The new era of radical change is finally upon us. The first date when the Uranus/Pluto square will be exact is coming up (June 24th). You ready?
Pluto will be making an inconjunct to Venus retrograde in Gemini, but Venus will be supported by a sextile to Uranus. Decisions (Gemini) about relationships, money and self-esteem will have to accommodate (inconjunct) forces beyond your control. But you'll be fine if you act quickly and approach things from a different angle (Uranus in Aries).
If you try to force your romantic agenda, you'll lose. If you try to make a relationship conform to what you've grown used to, you'll lose. If you indulge in the same old self-defeating behavior, you'll hit a wall. You simply have to change. So pick the unexpected option. If you're not sure what that might be, imagine yourself discussing your scenario with a friend/family member who's known you forever. What could you do that would totally surprise them?
If you have planets/angles between 7-8 degrees Capricorn or Aries and/or between 6-7 degrees Gemini you'll feel this one intensely.