There's an interesting influence coming up from October 22nd to October 26th. Venus in Sagittarius will form an inconjunct with Jupiter, at 20 degrees Cancer. An inconjunct is the most awkward of aspects, demanding adjustment between two incompatible influences. But Jupiter rules Sagittarius. How might this play out?
Start with the signs. Sagittarius wants expansion and adventure. Cancer wants it cozy and familiar. So even though Jupiter has been pushing Cancer past its boundaries, it's still Cancer. When Venus (love, money, self-esteem) in Sag (with her agenda of "Let's try something new") aspects Jupiter, it may be a case of new and intriguing opportunities that nudge you even further outside your comfort zone.
The natal house occupied by Cancer is where Jupiter has been expanding things. You may be feeling overwhelmed/overemotional. And now Venus is coming, and she'll be pushing you a bit further. This will most likely be good news (any aspect between Venus and Jupiter is basically positive) but you'll have to make adjustments. The inconjunct always brings dissatisfaction, so there may be something really good, but somehow it won't quite fit into your life. Comfort or risk? Home or travel? You can do it or there's no way in Hell? It won't be (can't be) either/or, because you'll have to find a way to incorporate both options.
Sound impossible? Welcome to the inconjunct.
Know this; as awkward as it will feel, the absolute worst thing you can do is ignore this opportunity. Find a way to make it work for you. The key is middle ground between the two options.
If you have planets/angles from 16-20 degrees Cancer or Sagittarius, you'll feel this influence most strongly.