Excerpt from my latest Sasstrology post (please leave comments on the Sasstrology site):
"Hard aspects between natal Mars/Neptune and Venus/Neptune are typically associated with romantic deceivers, escapists or victims. But these aspects can, if handled properly, also indicate a lover that many people would be blessed to hook up with. Read on to discover why Neptune’s illusions are not always a bad thing. Note that these descriptions apply to natal Mars and Venus in a man orwoman’s chart, but I’ve used gender-specific pronouns to avoid confusion."