Now that Cancer season is upon us once again, it's time for another Tarot post.
The 4 of Cups is associated with the Moon in Cancer. This is the card of emotional withdrawal. If you pull it, it means you're not appreciating what's in front of you, or you're depressed.
It's not a horrible card, but if it refers to you, you probably don't love that grey feeling it describes. I often see this card come up around unrequited love. The person symbolized by the 4 of Cups is simply not interested. They're not open to what the other person is offering.
If this card is reversed, it suggests that the 4 of Cups person is ready to receive something new, after a time of withdrawal.
Cancer Moon is highly sensitive, and protectively curls in on itself at the drop of a hat. This card reminds you that too much self-protective curling can shut you off from everything. You can wallow so deeply in your hurt/ennui that you overlook something good. And this card always suggests that there is something good, under your nose. But if you don't want it, then...