Excerpt from my latest Sasstrology article (please leave comments on the Sasstrology site):
"A slow moving transit (Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto) impacting a natal house/planet is often associated with big events in your love life. There is a specific set of expectations associated with each planet. But when these transits hit, and the expected doesn’t happen, you might wonder what the deal is. If a transit does not behave in a predicted manner, this can indicate that your understanding of the planet is incomplete. Read on to see what you might be overlooking in some of the classic interpretations. Note that the following is most likely to impact your relationships: a slow transit moving through your 5th or 7th Houses, over your Ascendant, aspecting your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or the ruler of your 5th/7th Houses."