Excerpt from my latest Sasstrology article (please leave comments on the Sasstrology page):
"Wouldn’t it be great if you could meet someone who was attracted to your most challenging qualities? I’m talking about those issues that you’re always working on, because they trip you up or drag you down. Actually, this happens more often than not, and you can see it immediately in synastry. The troublesome energies in your chart are (due to their strength) the very things that can draw a potential partner to you. This can be amazing on some levels, because it confirms that you are who you are, and that your most authentic essence is what magnetizes others. But it can also have a downside, if the partners you attract end up enabling, abusing or feeding off you."