Excerpt from my latest Sasstrology post (please leave comments on the Sasstrology site):
"One of the ironies of relationships is their success depends on your ability to not have a relationship. While mastering the art of intimacy is essential, you need to be comfortable with yourself first. This demands a level of healthy independence, and how you deal with being alone is clearly indicated in your chart. If the thought of not having a partner drives you to make desperate choices, this will impact the quality of your relationships. But if you’re so terrified of getting close to someone that you construct emotional walls, this will impact your love life as well. True security consists of accepting the fact that you are just fine as you are, single or paired up."