Venus in Aquarius square Mars in Taurus (23 deg)
Venus in Aquarius sextile Jupiter in Sagittarius (23 deg)
Mars in Taurus inconjunct Jupiter in Sagittarius (23 deg)
What you want (Venus) is at odds with what you do to get it (Mars). This can mean trying too hard, being possessive (Taurus owns and Aquarius insists on independence) or trying to control a relationship where the rules are open-ended.
Tension between Mars and Venus can also trigger strong but discordant attraction, and Venus/Jupiter gently enhances the hope for something more. Here’s an expansive opportunity, but Jupiter is also about freedom. So “more” is achieved only if you’re able to let the other person breath or loosen your insistence on habits/routines proceeding exactly as they always have.
Mars inconjunct Jupiter can amplify actions, but this can end up as exaggerated efforts to keep control. You try to hang on to what you’ve gained, grab more and don’t let go. This will not cut it with Venus in Aquarius - you may have to detach a bit and consider that what you want/love involves keeping an open mind.
Venus/Mars can be a crisis that is just about to be surpassed - you’re turning a difficult corner as you reconcile motivations with desire. If you want this, and it’s not working, what can you change? What are you reaching for?